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This is Your Life....D

Amazing how accurate this is... wow.


Your Existing Situation
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others in order to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.

Your Stress Sources
Resists any form of pressure from others and insists on her independence as an individual. Wants to make up her own mind without interference, to draw her own conclusions and arrive at her own decisions. Detests uniformity and mediocrity. As she wants to be regarded as one who gives authoritative opinions, she find it difficult to admit to being wrong, while at times she is reluctant to accept or understand another's point of view.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are such that she feels forced to compromise for the time being if she is to avoid being cut off from affection or from full participation.
Distressed by the obstacles with which she is faced and is no mood for any form of activity or for further demands on her. Needs peace and quiet, and the avoidance of anything which might distress her further.

Wants to broaden her fields of activity and insists that her hopes and ideas are realistic. Distressed by the fear that she may be prevented from doing what she wants; needs both peaceful conditions and quiet reassurance to restore her confidence.

Insists that her hopes and ideas are realistic, but need reassurance and encouragement. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.

Your Desired Objective
Needs a peaceful environment. Wants release from stress, and freedom from conflicts or disagreement. Takes pains to control the situation and its problems by proceeding cautiously. Has sensitivity of feeling and a fine eye for detail.

Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.

Your Actual Problem #2
Does not wish to be involved in differences of opinion, contention or argument, preferring to be left in peace.

Take it here

And on an unrelated note:

We've got the lovely Price Waterhouse Team coming into my office for the next 2 weeks, which means everyone got e-mailed today that starting tomorrow and for the next 2 weeks it's professional dress attire every day.


I so only have one decent work outfit, seeing as 99% of the time I could go to work in sweats if I wanted to. And the occasional Professional Dress or Business Casual dress code days are about 1-2 a month.

Needless to say I just spent 300 BUCKS on some mix and match semi dressy semi casual attire thanks to the folks at Target.

Dressy enough for professional attire, casual enough where I will be comfortable and be able to WASH these and not have them dry cleaned.

Like I will even be seen by the PW guys?


There are 1000 employees in my building alone, and I've been selected to up-train to learn the medical claims systems, CPT coding processing, ICD9 codes, reading the Superbill, HCFA and UB92 claim forms and about 4 other software systems in the process.

In 3 weeks no less, with one week OJT (On the Job Training) before I go back to my desk solo... so on top of the professional dress, I'm in a little corner training room and not even at my desk. Then I found out today as well, after this training course, I'll be back at my desk for only 3-4 weeks before I'm yanked AGAIN to get more systems training to handle our proclaim open access policies, that training is ANOTHER 4 weeks, then back to my desk for 4 weeks, then BACK INTO TRAINING to learn the power multi-state end state MHS systems... another 6 weeks of training


My brain is already melting, medical systems are HARD, and there are thousands of variables and exceptions, and BOOKS AND BOOKS worth of Federal and state laws and mandates that govern how I BREATHE in the medical Insurance arena.

Tell me again why I do this? Oh yeah MONEY IS NICE TO HAVE....

I'm very confident now I am going to be hired permanent, they would not be investing all this time and money into training me on all these systems if they didn't plan to hire me. They base these things on Quality, AHT STATS (Average Handling time), and attendance,

Quality I am at (according to my phone audits) averaging 98.765% quality (Not bad since I only started this Job Mid December and have only been flying solo since Mid/Late January)
my AHT stats are better than 5 year seasoned reps. You should be rated 350 0r lower... (5 year mandatory level) I average 220. (That's seconds per call)
my attendance - now that sucks recently.. I missed three days to illness. So I am on probation there, I'm well again so I'm not worried, I was literally sick, I wasn't goofing off and they even told me the probation as a formality from corporate HQ... they stressed I am not in jeopardy for being let go over having that horrid cold EVERYONE had at work.

I really feel like I'm back in college with the added pressure of my livelihood dependant on my absorbing all the massive amounts of confusing data they are trying to shove into my head, my headache are back with a vengeance, because the lights in the training room are really bright, and I have to really focus 100% of the time, this is the most mentally abusive and stressful job I've ever had... I'm sure once I learn all this stuff and settle back at my desk and apply the info daily, it will become routine, but until them OI VEY.... Someone put me out of my misery.

and what else do I have to add here? *SMIRK*

Remember when I said I'd never get married again?

I lied.

Now it's not going to be until at LEAST 2005 folks, but plan on y-con 2005 as the approx. date.

Rick and I have talked long and long and hard, and we thought a long engagement to be best, but we are officially aiming for an October 2005 wedding date.

D's gettin' hitched again.

We're planning just a civil ceremony before the con with just my parents attending, and a cosplay repeat of vows at the convention itself for all of our mutual friends.

We thought cosplay for all our friends actually at the convention would be lots of fun for all. And you're all invited!

Now to decide who we'll cosplay is going to be the HARD PART...


I'm still partial to a 3x4... We actually met 4 years ago over the GW fandom, it would be very nice to honor the fandom we met over even if we've both moved on since.

I dunno, it's a Loooooong way off yet, I'm sure plans will change a million times before then.


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Mar. 5th, 2004 05:13 am (UTC)
Dude, a cosplay wedding.

That is going to be so much fun. ;)

Oh, and congratulations, too. *g*
Mar. 5th, 2004 05:36 am (UTC)
Yay! A wedding! With cosplay, no less! Tohma will be at your wedding, I'll try my damndest to be there... with bells (or some other flashy accessory) on!

Good luck with all of the job stuff too!

Mar. 5th, 2004 06:08 am (UTC)


Well, I'll hafta come to Y-Con 2005 then! ^_~
Mar. 6th, 2004 05:21 am (UTC)
damn straight ya heathen....you better come to con one of these days...I need to give poor Pam a break and let you molest her yourself. ^^
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Mar. 5th, 2004 06:12 am (UTC)

While I would love to attend, I'm pretty sure lack of finances (and other things) would get in the way...but the best of luck to you both. :)
Mar. 5th, 2004 07:07 am (UTC)
Squeee! Congratulations on the Engagement! I'll see if I can square away some fundage to visit for the wedding. ;)
Mar. 5th, 2004 07:07 am (UTC)
WOW... you and Rick are getting hitched?? O___O

That is sooooo frickin cool!!! If can get my ass there, I WILL GO!!!


Congrats, both of you!! *huggles my two favorite, almost married, people*

Mar. 5th, 2004 01:24 pm (UTC)
Why do I get the feeling a TON of people are going to be at YaoiCon 2005? :)

But it's all good.. pray I don't get stage fright in front of crowds j/k :)

(seriously, I'm not gonna freak.. I've done over the air radio, and that was to well over 30,000 people listening at one time.. Besides.. doing this at one of the biggest anime conventions in the states is an honor :) )

*huggles her back* I'm excited and really ready for this.. was jaded before, but it took someone special to shake my world up and say "Hey, this IS gonna be special "

Way cool.. :)

Mar. 5th, 2004 07:25 am (UTC)
Congratulations! And congratulations! I think you'll do well at work (yep, why train someone you're *not* keeping? Huzzah!) and ooh, that'll be so neat!^^
Mar. 5th, 2004 07:26 am (UTC)
Yay!! *pops the champagne*

You know this means we'll have to make that run to Vegas before the con...just, y'know, because it's Vegas, and you'll be getting married, so why the hell not? ^______^
Mar. 5th, 2004 07:37 am (UTC)
Oh bachelorette party? You, me stormy and whomever else in the area can get there and slots THat's actually a very scary thought.


Rick better not even think about it. It'll give him an apolyptic FIT... I'd like to keep him around awhile

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Mar. 5th, 2004 08:30 am (UTC)
Married again? Oh, what blessed news! ^___^

Not to mention a cosplay wedding, into the bargain. Good thing you and best beloved are giving yourselves a lot of lead time, and yes, maybe the plans will be revised and reworked. But in the end, if you both are sure it's the right thing, I'm sure it will happen -- and I wish you joy and lots of loving, I do.

Can you tell that I'm biased towards happy endings, being happily married myself?

Mar. 5th, 2004 01:19 pm (UTC)
About my same sentiment there...
I've always belived in marriage, just had the wrong people to be with, and it's jaded me a whole hell of a lot.

When D and I started talking, something clicked and said "Warm".
When she and I started talking about futures, my heart lept and I was at peace.
When I was doing Raw this past Wednesday, and the propositions happened with thoughts of 2005 to make extremely sure that this was right and good, I was at peace.

Those that know me from either online or IRL know I haven't been at peace for a long time, and epically depressive...

D's changed that, all for a positive and good outcome... I've always done alright and good around positive vibes, care and love, and to spend the rest of my life with D sounds like a hell of a way to round out my time, be it one day or one million days. Each of those days will be a blessing and a gift.
Mar. 5th, 2004 01:52 pm (UTC)
*party streamers all round*
Congratulations!!! Very happy for you and Rick

How cool is that? A cosplay wedding?
Mar. 5th, 2004 02:12 pm (UTC)
Well, I'm happy for you. Just, wow, how long have you been together? And you're now engaged already? That was pretty fast.

Well, if I can make the monies, and if I'm available at all, let me know, and I'll go. Always wanted to finally meet you guys in the flesh, and what better way to do it then at your wedding?

Mar. 5th, 2004 03:01 pm (UTC)
Together technically not long but known each other since early 2000 so it's not like we're strangers here or teenagers, that helps immensely.

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Mar. 5th, 2004 02:46 pm (UTC)
It should be just fine to have your wedding at the con. Of course, we aren't even *looking* at the 2005 con, since we have to make sure we survive (physically, emotionally, psychological and financially) the 2004 con....

But there shouldn't be any problem. The ladies were tickled pink at the very idea. ^^
Mar. 5th, 2004 03:03 pm (UTC)
well even if it's not part of the Con and just say in our room, we're aiming for it round about that time, we're all gonna be dressed up like fools anyway.

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Mar. 5th, 2004 03:34 pm (UTC)
Congradulations!!! I'm exceedingly happy for you and wish you both the absolute best!

Mar. 5th, 2004 03:47 pm (UTC)
Congratulations!!!!! *glomps* I'm so happy for you both!!!

Long engagement is good. Pre-marital co-habitation even better (though not entirely fool-proof as my recent posts in my own LJ have shown).

I decided to bag the trip to Yaoi-con 2004 (looong story), but it's great to know I'll have something to look forward to in 2005. Squeee!!!!
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